For Day 19 of World Watercolor Month and our optional prompt of “Crowd,” I sketched a little penguin family enjoying time alone. Neither Philippe nor I are fond of large gatherings, so we never go to large parties or places that are very crowded. I sketched a family trio, as that’s what we have, but our pup Elliott would disagree with the whole crowd avoidance thing. He adores large gatherings of people and if we pass an event that’s happening in the distance while out on a walk his ears will perk up and he’ll head in that direction. Though he does love the attention he receives in a group of people, he’s mostly just full of curiosity. He just really wants to know what’s happening there. And, he assumes that if that many people gathered for whatever it is, then it must be something awesome. I love seeing his enthusiasm, though I’m still not entirely convinced that a quiet time with a much smaller group wouldn’t be even more amazing.
In some ways, though, I am a bit like Elliott. I do get very interested in watching people while I’m in crowded settings. In fact, it’s my own curiosity that makes those situations so overstimulating and ultimately exhausting. I get so scattered with my thoughts while trying to take it all in that I can barely focus on anything at all. Then, my introvert tends to kick in and it’s like someone tipped over an hourglass. As the sands begin to flow to the next side, my energy begins to deplete. Slowly, grain by grain, I start to feel less enthusiastic, more fidgety, and start looking hopefully toward the nearest exit. I’m usually good at knowing when the top of this invisible hourglass is almost empty, but sometimes I outstay my welcome. Then I just get rather cranky. Actually, when Elliott gets overstimulated he gets cranky as well, so we’re really not that different after all.
My ideal group consists of no more than six total people at a time. In that setting, I can easily move between conversations and feel like I’m actually connecting in a way that’s truly meaningful. When I’m in those groups, I feel refreshed and happy afterwards. Indeed, it’s always because they’re groups of my own choosing, which is also my preference. Elliott chooses all groups of any sort of living beings. He’s not particularly picky. So, he’s not particularly happy when I pull him in a different direction. Yet, once he’s home and cuddling up with his dads, he seems wildly content. As the hot weather rages on, we’re mostly just hiding indoors so there’s not much opportunity to even be near a group of people. And, I have to admit that I’m not bothered at all by that circumstance. The best place on the planet is a place were I get to spend time with my own little trio, quietly enjoying the private world we’ve built together, far, far away from the crowd.
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