Today’s prompt was one of those that seemed intriguing when I wrote it and then when I came to it, I had no idea what to paint. Since I don’t enjoy painting people, it made it extra challenging, and we ended up with this wildly exuberant dog instead. I’m not sure dogs actually laugh, nor do they experience that uncontrollable laughter than leads us humans to fits of tears and stomach pains. But there’s really nothing better, so it’s no wonder so many people report this as being a favorite of life’s little pleasures. Not surprisingly, “laughing until you pee a little” didn’t make the list, as though it’s quite similar, it comes with embarrassingly unfortunate consequences. My favorite part of falling into a fit of laughter is that the thing that takes you there is not usually even that funny in the first place. It’s just a moment between you, and that friend who knows you better than anyone should, that triggers a comical chain reaction. I remember rolling on the floor with my friend from college, clutching my stomach while laughing uncontrollable, barely able to speak, yet managing to utter the words, “it hurts to be happy!!”
I tend to find humor in absolutely everything in life. This has gotten me into trouble on many occasions. If I find myself in the horrible circumstance of being surrounded by “serious” people, I nearly have to shut off my ears to avoid laughing at something. I usually end up giggling anyway and being shot those horrible serious stares that are devoid of all understanding. Life, to me, is beautifully ridiculous. Not so much a poem or a love song, but a cherished joke we all love to tell. I can’t imagine taking any of it too seriously, and really, what would be the fun in that anyway? I get this from my family who have giggled their way through hard times, financial problems, and even funerals. There is always something happy to focus on, no matter what bad things are happening in life. Always. It’s simply a choice, and you’ll always find me choosing happy. Once in college, I was completely out of money and found myself unexpectedly crying in the grocery store. The very idea of crying in a grocery was so perfectly stupid to me that I immediately started giggling. I then grabbed those sad ramen noodles I’d been eyeing and headed back to my cramped apartment to enjoy a feast fit for no one. Laughing all the way.
Sure, bad things happen, sometimes every day. But if you look at the world with an artist’s eye, you’ll always find that the good outnumbers the bad. This, to me, means that life is essentially wonderful and the bad things can’t possibly be as important. If I get too stressed about something bad that’s happening in my life, I’m letting something small opaque the greater meaning. Oh, yeah, I don’t proclaim to know the “meaning of life” at all, I just proclaim that it doesn’t need one. Life doesn’t have to be fully understood to be enjoyed. In fact, the mysteries are what makes life so terribly interesting in the first place and propel us to go on living it. Perhaps, on that next turn we take around the bend, all will be revealed. So we journey onward, hoping to find the next clue as to what any of this means. And then, just as we think we know exactly what it’s all about, something really dumb happens and we can’t help but smile. Then giggle. Then guffaw. Then, yes, maybe even pee a little as we realize life has told yet another unfathomable joke, that leaves us laughing until it hurts.
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Da Vinci Paint Co.: Yellow Ochre, Terra Cotta, Quinacridone Burnt Orange, Opus (Vivid Pink), Ultramarine Blue and Payne’s Gray. Lamy Al-Star Safari Fountain Pen with sepia ink in an A5 Hahnemühle Watercolour Book.